Not so Savy...

So my son Ky Ky was playing with my hubby & they ended up breaking our cheapo DVD stand. Which was fine by me. Gives me an excuse to get a new one :D

Knowing that I can put it together by myself. So it would get done. Instead of waiting on my slacker of a husband to do it. It would be forever if i waited for him. He's a bit of a procrastinator.


So I put it together. Thinking I was all slick got it all done. Didn't take much time at all..

Take a look at the picture of the noted new DVD stand...
Notice anything kinda odd about the finished product.. Or something that was put on wrong...

Take a min to look..

Yea I put the top shelf on wrong. UGH! I didn't notice this till I had put it all together, & gotten all the DVDs back on it.

So now I get to be teased how I messed up the DVD shelf. But hey at least it got done! & I can just paint the unfinished part. :P

I WANT TO DO THAT!

So I have no prob that I have some crappy taste in t.v. :P At least I am willing to admit it!

But a show that I'm completely obsessed with is So You Think You Can Dance. Only cause I have been totally obsessed with Dancing since I was about 5! We were poor, so I never got to take dance classes!

But on this weeks show. That I just watched yesterday.OMG one of the hip hop routines was AMAZING!!

I've decided that I will be taking some dance class of some sort when I loose a bit more weight!! My friend Ashely said she would take it with me! So that will be fun!!

It's a love, hate relationship sometimes!

Since I am ubberly *yes i do make up my own words* mad at my husband right now, instead of venting about him. I have decided to remind myself what I LOVE about him instead of dwelling on his flaws!
So here's a list of his wonderful qualities that I over look most the time when I am mad!

* His sense of humor. How he can make me laugh, even when we're fighting. He still manages to get me to crack up. He loves comedy & to make people laugh! He's good at it too. But he's far too shy to ever do it for a living!

* How big his heart is! He wants to help everyone that he can. Even if the problem doesn't really concern him, if there is a way he can help fix it. He will try.

* He's an amazing father. He loves our children so much! It warms my heart to see him play with our kids! Just to see him roll around on the floor while they attack him is the cutest thing ever!

* He's a hard worker. Works hard for everything we have. A wonderful provider for our family. That is also one of his flaws all at the same time. He something thinks that working is the only way to fix the problem. Not the case all the time. But at least he works!

* How smart he is. It's frustrating that he doesn't use all his smarts to do something better for a job, but hopefully we can change that soon. He's so intelligent! He does math for fun.. Not kidding at all on this one. He has a geometry book & randomly does problems out of it. We also have a physics book too.

*His eyes :) He has some of the prettiest blue eyes known to man kind! I LOVE them :P

*He's the biggest dork ever! I do love this about him. Even though it bugs me from time to time. But he wouldn't be Kyle if he wasn't a huge dork!! I'm a dork, but he wins this battle with his love of all things that are Nerdy :P

There's more. But that is all I can think of while I am mad. I think that is good enough for the time being.

Oh the itch!

I know some people are thinking something naughty from the tittle. No Jenbun not that kind of itch!

My tattoo that is healing has hit the super itchy point! It's all peeling & kinda gross looking :( You can't really tell from the pic. But it's weird looking at the moment. Most of the flower's are healed. But the tree looks 3-Dish. & OMG the itchiness!!! AHHHHH

Doesn't help that the kids keep wanting to touch it & pet it. lol

Also Jenbun if Ky Ky doesn't stop trying to jump off of everything today, you maybe getting him in the mail ;)

I swear he doesn't care if he would break every bone in his body. & using Beth as something to jump over... Yea So she's been his landing spot at least 3 times today. Surprised she's not broken either...

Boys are fun..

Thing's I should really be doing..

I was horsing around on the computer, Reading blogs. Listening to my i pod super loud, when my husband called & asked what I was doing... my response; " uhh...." His; "playing on the computer, right? Shouldn't you be doing something else more productive?"

He has a point. There's tons of things that I could be getting done.

LIKE:
*Dishes
*Laundry~ Washing, Folding, & even the dreaded putting away
* My kid's room kinda needs to be picked up a bit. But they're responsible for that part, but need me to observe so they don't play more than clean
*Cleaning the upstairs bathroom.
* Even vacuum maybe.

But none of that sounds fun! Just having a rather lazy day. I am going over to my sister's house to help her friend clean before she gets home from her "vacation" to go visit our family. So doesn't that count as my cleaning for the day :P
I think so.

Graduations, Death beds, Weight loss, Anniversaries, & Inkage!!

So I haven't written in awhile but I have a valid reason!
I nearly died.. OK I maybe a bit on the dramatic side.. But sure felt like it!

I thought they were allergies.. But boy was I VERY VERY wrong! So I was SUPER SICK last week!! It started about 2 Saturday's ago with this annoying cough. I thought it was allergies.

This is my 1st year having them, so I have no clue what to expect. But by Sun the cough was worse, but is still felt fine.. That was a different story Mon morning!! OMG I felt like DEATH! I woke up & my eye were BURNING, my whole body hurt, I was so congested & just plain SICK & MISERABLE!
That lasted til wed. eveningish. By Thurs. I was feeling lots better, just like I had a normal cold. Not on my death bed! My co-worker said I sound horrible, but compared to what I felt like before, i felt loads better! Now I just have the left over cough. Annoying!
& back to the runny nose of allergies. Anyone know a good allergy med??

But during my sickness, My daughter's graduated from Kindergarten :) It was the cutest most dysfunctional graduation ever :P

Beth's rather sad that she has to have a different teacher, But I know she will love her next teacher just as much.

Also in the last 2 weeks I've lost 6.8 lbs :D Woot!! Puts me close to 16lbs lost WOO HOO! GO ME!! Yea I know It's cause I didn't eat a whole lot with me being sick. But don't care :P I lost woo!

And this Thurs was mine & the Hubby's 4 year wedding Ann! Can't believe it's been that long! We've been together forever...Ok close to 7 years.. Just feels like forever lol But it's been a hard road, but I know we can make it another 4 & lots more :D

On Thurs I also happened to get the tattoo I got done after my adopted dad's death redone. Cause I wasn't pleased with it. Now it's GORGEOUS!! I found out that there is this awesome tattoo shop just up my street & the guy is amazing!! He free handed it on me & every thing! Simply amazing!

Here's Before: With the free handed drawing:

Mid way: & The Finished Product!:

I'm totally in love with it!! I just wish it would heal already lol. But I guess that takes time :P So that's a bit of what's been going on!

I think I am broken...

Yea I maybe broken... My back has been bothering me since sun. night :( It started off as a slight ache.. Now it's way more then that.. It pretty much hurts to do anything! I've been stretching it & everything!! I thought working out would be a good idea yesterday... OH MAN WAS I WRONG! Hurts a 100 times worse.. :( I'm not sure what I did. But lordy lord this needs to go away!!!!!
I hate this so much!!!

Calling all Jackasses!!

So the title it's self will explain my weekend! But in reference to my own behavior! Wow was I a JACKASS!

So one of my friends was back from the Army this last week. We had a wonderful time! MOST of the week. We hung out all day Fri. GREAT TIME!! Sun night he came by my work I gave him free food, we talked til 3 am. Wonderful time. Mon. night Even Better of a time. But on Thurs. when we went out for our "good bye" Oh that's a different story.. Started off great! We go to the bar that our friend works at.

We're at the bar getting shots, since that's usually what you do in a bar. Even better when they are free.. ;)

Him & I are bullshitting with our bartender friend. Then I hear his nickname being called. It's a mean nickname that he's had for year. One of those that you get use to being called & it just sticks around. I refuse to call him that. But we'll refer to him as "Army Boy"

Anyways. So I hear some lets refer to her a whorish girl calling "army boy" He doesn't hear it. I debate about actually getting his attention.. Cause I have this undying feeling that once I do.. the evening will go DOWNHILL!! I was right BTW!

So I end up being the nice person that I am & get his attention. The whoreish girl throws herself at "Army Boy" they exchange #'s & we end up leaving to go to a different bar, that our designated Driver's little sister could get into.. she has 2 weeks til she is 21 & wanted to hang out with "army boy" before he left. So we go to the NASTIEST bar I've ever been to in my life. We get more drinks. & start playing pool.. Well

Me & my other friend went to go to the bathroom. When we left the pool table "army boy" was on his phone by the pool table.. When we came out he wasn't there.

Our Desi. said he was out front on the phone.. His coat was by my purse.. So I figured he would be right in. When 10 Min's rolls by. We begin to wonder where he went.

The little sister said he left.. We were all in shock. He wouldn't do that! No way! I go out front.. No where to be found.. Start calling him... no answer, text the same.. Finally as we are all pissed he calls me saying we left him... UM NO! We went to the bathroom & you were talking on your phone next to the car dumb ass! He Say's he's going to go get a hotel with the whorish girl! But when we inform him that we're heading to another bar he says he will meet us there.

So we're mad! And head to another bar... It's dead! So we go back to the original destination. I call him to let him know that we are no longer at the dead bar. He answers Screams "WHAT?!" Then hangs up on me....

**FYI** the one thing that clicks my temper on in a heart beat... Is you hanging up on me.. He knows this.. we had a discussion about this during the week when hubby hung up on me**

So I get ohhh mildly irate.. Leave him a nasty message... Not my finest moment..

We get back to the original bar. & our other friend is out front & says that "army boy" showed back up 10 Min's after we left. Yea right after he ditched us he went back for the whore! Yea real nice. Makes us Even madder. Other group of friends tell us to calm down.. easier said then done, when your filled with alcohol goodness.. ALOT of it too.

So we find Army Boy.. turns into a a 3 way screaming match.. Luckily our bartender friend was inside the whole time this went on!!

I end up calling the whorish girl a whore to her face.. But on a satisfying note this is what I said " I hope you have fun with you whore!" Army boy's response "I will" Totally admitting that she's a WHORE! I WIN!

So he goes off with the whore. But me & my friend don't want the screaming match to be the last things we say to Army Boy.. So we go to say good bye... Oh such not a good idea.

We just fight some more.

Once again I leave another LOVELY message on his voice mail. Not to mention any of the text that Both me & my friend sent him through out the night...

Yea...

So we all go back to the worlds best designated drivers house! Pass out & wake up the following morning filled with shame & a HORRIBLE hangover!

He calls.. to say Yea he ditched us.. Oh & to tell me that his phone died & was about to die again... OOPS! I asked if he had listened to my voice mails.. He said not all of them. Just deleted them cause I was rambling! THANK GOD!! We all apologize. But I don't hear much from him on Fri. I am still feeling like the biggest jackass known to man kind!

So on Sat. The day he leaves for 2 years to go off to his far away destination. He texts me to see when I work. I immediately get defensive thinking he wanted free food. So I call him & ask him why? He tells me he wants to say good bye before I have to work.. yea jack ass again! But we say our good byes & leave on a good note.. I guess. But damn I wish I could totally take back that night. We're pretending that it never happened. & I am NOT drinking for a LONG LONG TIME!!

Moral of this story.. Lots of shots of 151 & Captain Morgans, a Army Boy, & a whore stealing your friend don't mix..